Over the time, I’ve seen so many young ladies that ended up in a bad marriage while some were entrapped in the carcass of courtship heart-break. This problem still exists even till now and many more youths are still warming up to jump into wrong marriage.

Meanwhile, you can feel free to check out an article I wrote on The Causes Of Unhappy Marriages and Skyrocketing Ways On How To Prevent It. In addition to this, it is believed that ladies are always too emotional than the male gender.

As a lady, learn to control your emotions; don’t be so fast to revert an answer or a feedback to a guy when he proposes. This is also applicable to the guys too. There are so many things they should know about a young lady before proposing to her.

However, wisdom demands that you should know at least 50% to 70% of a guy that proposed to you probably before you accept his proposal. Don’t be too emotional; be sensitive to ask him and realize some certain things about him.

Ideally, on this very content, I’ll be sharing with you 15 different questions to ask him before accepting his proposal. Hey, listen; you shouldn’t do this immediately he proposes. Just do this little by little don’t rush this.

13 Questions To Ask Him Before Accepting His Proposal

13. Ask Him His Genotype:

This is not a matter of being spiritual or not. One of the major questions you should ask a guy before accepting his proposal is his genotype. This aspect really matters a lot dear sister. 

Don’t allow yourself and emotions to be disorganised. Make sure you know his genotype. Yeah! This is actually one of the questions you should ask him when he proposes. Don’t forget this; ‘Genotype compatibility’ is one aspect in marriage you shouldn’t neglect.

12. Ask Him Why He Wants To Marry:

It’s obvious that so many guys out there don’t really know the reason why they want to marry. Most of them don’t even have a reason for doing so. Now from another sphere and comparism, there are so many young guys that see marriage very necessary the moment they become ready for child-bearing.

Other young guys want to get married simply because they were pressured by parents and relatives. As a young lady, as soon a guy proposes to you; try to find out the reason or reasons why he wanted to marry. Please don’t you marry a guy who needed marriage just because he wants to start making babies.

11. Ask Him Why He Choose You:

It is very necessary for you to know why he chooses you for marriage. Most men will give you some silly kinds of reasons. Let his reason be his deep convictions or let it be for the virtue-ness he saw in you.

I’ve seen guys who said he can’t marry a lady who is not beautiful, most people said they can’t marry a lady that doesn’t have abundant resources at her back-side and chest region. Can you imagine that?

These guys are already telling you what determines who they will marry. Please here is my candid advice for you dear young lady; don’t marry any guy who chooses you because of your beauty and other irrelevant reasons.

When beauty fades, he’ll leave you for other beautiful young ladies. Marry a man who would appreciate your virtues, your values, etc.

10. Ask Him His Age:

Knowing his age is something you shouldn’t fail to know. Yeah, make sure you ask him his age. If he age is okay by you; then you’re free to consider him but please do not let his age be the reason why you would consider his proposal.

What I meant was; his age should be one of the things you should consider before saying yes to his proposal.

9. Ask Him Where He Stays:

Some would say; this is not necessary and many will find this quite funny. But listen, knowing where he stays really matters a lot and this is actually one of the questions you should ask him.

It will amaze you to know that many guys are still squatting with their friends in a one room apartment, some two rooms and flats. Funny enough, most guys are still staying with their parents.

These men are not yet ready; don’t consider such men except he stays with friends, parents for some reasons.

8. Ask Him His Religious Belief:

It is very important for you to know his religious belief. Don’t be deceived by what you see or know him for. No matter how good he is either morally or otherwise if his religious belief is not similar or the same to yours, the marriage will certainly not work.

If you’re marrying a Christian whose religious belief does not agree with yours, it’ll be so unreasonable to consider his proposal. So dear sister, if his religious belief does not agree with yours, just respect yourself, and decline his proposal.

Yeah, your belief and faith are as serious as that. The only reason why you should consider his proposal even when his religious belief does not agree with yours is if God says ‘he is the one’. That should be the only reason why you should up-vote his request.

7. Ask Him His Temperament:

Temperament compatibility is also another factor to consider in choosing a spouse. You really need to know the temperament of the guy that proposed to you.

Meanwhile, I’ll write on temperaments sooner on this same blog, just make sure stay active with this blog so as to be updated on my latest contents. If you’re very hotter and highly tempered, please don’t marry someone who is also tempered.

Make sure you take your time to study his temperaments before accepting his proposal.

6. Ask Him When He Wants To Marry:

Some guys will just come around to propose to you simply because they wanted to feel among them. They wouldn’t want to be tagged odd amongst his fellow guys. They just wanted to have someone they would call their ‘woman’ not because they’re ready for marriage.

Meanwhile, some guys propose to a girl earlier enough because they don’t want to risk the fact that of losing her to another man. Some propose to a lady when they’ve become ready for marriage.

Please don’t marry a guy who is not even serious about marriage. Yeah, don’t marry someone who just wanted to meet up with the status quo. When a guy proposes to you, try to find out when he wants to marry, if the duration or date is okay by you; then you can go ahead to court him.

5. Ask Him His Ex and Previous Relationship:

Knowing about his previous relationship is also very important. You need to ask him if he has ever courted any young lady before, also try to know why they broke up. They might sound very funny but please do not neglect this very aspect. This will really give you a glue to how to stay with him.

4. Ask Him His Qualifications:

You should know his qualifications, you need to know if he’s a graduate or not. Yeah, try to know if he’s an under-graduate or a school cert holder. Most men didn’t attend any; they just went for other skills in a tertiary body.

I’m not saying that you should or must marry a man with a certificate. All am saying is that you should know his level of qualification, then if it okay by you; you’re free to consider him.

3. Ask Him His Family Background:

This is another important question you should ask a guy who proposes to you. It is very necessary for you to know about his family background; where he came from, his state and local government.

Don’t be in a haste to embarrass your village people (smiles), make sure you know his family background.

2. Ask Him What He Does For a Living:

You must and should be very sensitive in knowing what he does for a living. This is one of the most crucial questions you should ask a guy who proposes to you.

Who knows, he might be into ritualism (smiles), that’s funny though. But on a serious note, don’t be a fool. You should endeavour to ask him what he does for a living. That’s important beloved.

1. Ask Him His Plans for the future:

Most guys are just around; they’re not deliberating doing anything about their future. Yeah, they may be working and doing some other lucrative things. You should ask him his plans for the future. Don’t marry a guy who doesn’t have plans and visions for his future.


Dear young lady, marriage is not a game or something you should rush into. Be intentional in choosing whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. So don’t be blinded by love. Love is not blind. The only reason why you should not consider all these is only if God says ‘go ahead’. But apart from that, you must be very careful and sensitive.

Please do not forget to ask him these questions. Please don’t make this obvious in such a way that he’ll notice it. You can actually do this gradually even without his notice and I can assure, he’ll provide you with the genuine answers.

So having read this content, hope it met your expectations? Meanwhile, do you have any question to ask? Or do you have any content you would want me to write on?

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  1. Amazing content. Lots of ladies these days fail to inquire this before they move in with their partners. Meanwhile, you can check amazing relationship contents here https://giftedbest.com


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